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Introduction
These days, one of the buzziest terms I hear around our relationship with food is “food noise.” It’s the constant mental chatter about eating, especially cravings for comfort foods – and one of the most talked-about effects of GLP-1 medications (Ozempic, Monjouro, Wegovy, Zepbound) is how they seem to quiet that noise. For many, it feels like a relief. Like freedom.
This rising conversation has also opened the door to another topic that’s long been taboo: food addiction. I often explain to my patients that food can be addictive, especially the way it’s manufactured today, loaded with salt, sugar, and low-quality fats designed to keep us coming back for more.
In his book Hooked, Michael Moss explores how the food industry uses both ingredients and psychology to keep us addicted. He writes, “Our brain has its own slurry of chemicals that are exquisitely formulated to get us to act compulsively, dopamine chief among them… but one hallmark of addiction is the speed with which substances hit the brain, and this puts the term fast food in a new light.” It’s all designed to hijack our brain chemistry.
But unlike cigarettes or alcohol, food isn’t optional—it’s essential to survival. That makes this kind of addiction much more complicated. Managing it isn’t about quitting; it’s about learning to live with it in a way that supports your health and peace of mind.
This is a conversation I bring into my work at all stages of life. Whether you’re preparing to become a parent or already raising children, healing your relationship with food and body sends powerful ripples into the next generation. The way we relate to food at home shapes our broader food culture.
Let’s unpack what’s really going on—and how to quiet the food noise in your head.
What Does It Even Mean To Have a Food Addiction?
Certain components in food—like sugar, salt, fat, and caffeine—can have addictive qualities, especially when consumed in large amounts. These ingredients don’t just leave us physically unsatisfied; they stimulate reward centers in the brain, triggering a euphoric response that can keep us coming back for more.
But food addiction isn’t the same as addiction to substances like tobacco or alcohol. We can’t simply quit eating—food is essential for survival. That’s what makes this so complex. The food most accessible to us is often highly processed and nutrient-poor, yet for many people, it makes up the bulk of their intake. It fills us up without truly nourishing us—and that cycle can be hard to break.
Why “No More Food Rules” Is the Key
What often fuels our complicated relationship with food—even to the point of addiction—is how the food industry and diet culture work hand in hand to disconnect us from our bodies and our natural cues. They do this through food rules, numbers, labels, and rigid systems that make us feel like we’re in control. On the surface, it feels safe—like we know what we’re doing.
We’re told things like, “Eat fewer calories, and you’ll lose weight.” So we try it. But when the results don’t come, we don’t question the method—we question ourselves. “What am I doing wrong?” instead of “Is this even scientifically sound?”
And so the food noise gets louder. The chatter increases. We feel even more out of control. The nuance is lost. The connection to our own body is lost. Nutrition gets reduced to a 30-second soundbite on social media.
Letting go of the rules is the first step toward reconnecting—with food, with your body, and with the kind of nourishment that actually supports your well-being.
How to Stop Thinking About Food All the Time
Here are a few powerful shifts to help you calm the mental food noise:
If food thoughts are constantly taking up space in your mind, you’re not alone. Here are a few powerful mindset and behavior shifts that can help quiet the mental food noise and rebuild your relationship with eating:
1. Stay Nourished
One of the most overlooked reasons for constant food thoughts is simple: hunger. Often, we don’t even recognize it as hunger—we just feel distracted, irritable, or fixated on food. Staying consistently nourished is essential for regaining control of both body and mind.
Make sure your meals and snacks are balanced and satisfying, including a mix of protein, fat, fiber. Eat regularly throughout the day—don’t go long stretches without eating, but also try to avoid constant grazing. Find a rhythm that feels sustainable.
2. Ditch the Restrictive Mindset
The more we tell ourselves we can’t have something, the more we crave it. Labeling foods as “good” or “bad,” “healthy” or “unhealthy,” sets us up for an all-or-nothing mindset—and usually, for failure.
Perfection isn’t the goal. In fact, striving for it often backfires, making you think about food even more. Instead, aim for balance: mostly nourishing meals with space for joy and satisfaction. Nothing needs to be off-limits. The better question is: How and when does this food fit into my day or week?
3. Lead with Mindfulness and Curiosity
Food is a basic human need, yet modern life has disconnected us from it. Meals are often convenient, processed, or outsourced, and we rarely pause to ask: What role does food play in my life?
Try checking in:
- Do you prepare meals yourself?
- Do you enjoy grocery shopping, or dread it?
- Are you always searching for the “perfect” restaurant meal?
- Is food mostly about convenience—or connection?
Shifting from judgment to curiosity allows space for mindful eating. Begin noticing how certain foods make you feel—physically, emotionally, and mentally—and what patterns you can shift gently, without shame.
4. Doctor Your Environment
We can’t change everything about the world around us, but we can adjust more than we think. Fast food is on every corner, the checkout aisle is loaded with sugary snacks, and social media is filled with unrealistic wellness ideals—but you can opt out of some of it.
- Curate your home food environment with nourishing choices.
- Unfollow social media accounts that trigger comparison or guilt.
- Follow people who promote balanced, realistic approaches to health.
- Change the language you use around food—especially when talking to yourself or others.
These micro-shifts matter. They help protect your peace and retrain your brain to engage with food from a place of intention, not overwhelm.
Key Takeaways:
- Food noise is real—and often driven by a mix of biology, diet culture, and the modern food environment.
- Restrictive food rules and labeling food as “good” or “bad” can actually increase food obsession.
- Staying nourished with balanced, regular meals helps quiet mental chatter around food.
- Mindfulness and curiosity—not judgment—are key to rebuilding a peaceful relationship with food.
- You have more control over your environment and mindset than you might think. Small shifts make a big difference.
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Disclaimer: The information in this post is for general educational purposes only and should not be considered personalized medical advice or a substitute for professional guidance. Always consult with your doctor or a registered dietitian before making any changes to your diet, lifestyle, or supplement routine.
